It’s December 30th - and you’ve got a
little over 24 hours to make up your mind. Will you make any
resolutions?
What’s it going to be this year? The
pressure is on.
Each year, thousands of us resolve to
change our ways with the start of a
new year. Amongst the many
promises we make to ourselves is the
one ‘but not until after midnight’.
It’s true, none of us are perfect and
could use some improvement in more
than one area of our life. What’s it
going to be this year? Are you going
to give something up or starting
something new?
Smoking, drinking, drugs, gambling,
bad food habits - these are the typical
things to give up. These things can all
be addicting. Not for everyone, but
why take the chance. If you haven’t
started any, why bother.
Addiction is and has been on the
increase for some time. Whether
we’re just hearing about it more or
whether there are just more people in
the world today available to drop into
this slot - addiction is a part of many
peoples lives. It drives them, it runs
their lives and sometimes ruins their
lives.
This is how addiction works: the use
of these addictive behaviors give us
pleasure - a good feeling. It’s not an
imagined thing - it’s chemical. When
we experience something
pleasurable, our brain releases a
natural body chemical called
dopamine.
We all have dopamine and our body
chemistry intends for this to be
released into our system naturally -
through daily life activities.
But....abuse or excessive amounts of
these and other addictive behaviors
cause the body to release excessive
amounts of dopamine. And this in
itself is enough to want to repeat the
behavior. The brain has to work
harder to stabilize the body’s chemicals by developing tolerance
to these unusual amounts. Continued
addictive behavior requires more and
more dopamine to continue providing
the pleasure. Over time, the brain
adapts by decreasing the amount of
dopamine available. And that....is the
reason we feel down or depressed
when we don’t continue with our
addictions.
A vicious circle of bad behavior for
sure. This is one instance where more
is not better.
It is a tough and pressured society we live in
and it takes much effort to get through the
daily grind sometimes.
Out of sight, out of mind? Sometimes it is
easier to curb our bad behaviors simply by
concentrating on forming new habits that
are good for us.
Typical new year resolutions include
joining the gym, jogging or walking, eating
better, self promises of being a better
person.
Whether your resolution is proclaimed out
loud (some people do this because they
think the pressure from everyone who hears
them will guilt them into success) or silent
like our dreams, we all have them.
Realizing that our personal behaviors affect
the ones around us and determine the
reflection in the mirror could be all the
incentive we need..
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